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Posted On 01/12/2009 02:57:22 by nicky

the 3 of us watched the willow play together last night,i saw it a few weeks ago and was very moved by it,but wasnt shure wether it would upset sophia,well i thought now were all calmer (due to the back flower remedies)matt and soph might be a bit more receptive to it,,soph was a bit uncomfortable at first and matt,but then soph asked lots of questions about Tom and we all did the massage on each other,any one passing would of thought we were about to do the konga,lol,any ways it ended with tom and his mum hugging each other ,and there wasnt a dry eye in the house,,afterwards i was in the kitchen preparing dinner,andd soph came in and made me jump up and down shouting hurray with her,,,,,,,she seemed very happy with us,,i think she now understands about how our own personal moods efect others but how we to can swop masks so  to speak and copy wat we see,,,,so we made a promise to love each other lots and our friends as the world would be so much happier xxxthanks for that again lin xxxxx



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01/12/2009 11:42:21

Nicky Thank yuo so much for taking the time to give us that feedback - I am delighted that WILLOW is doing his job so well and helping families.....


Give Soph a big HUG from me and WILLOW!


Lin


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From: nicky
01/12/2009 03:12:53

i also wanted to say this last week sophia has started loseing weight,we have not changed anything ,so it got me thinking,i remember reading somewere that children put weight on if they feel ensecure???well soph put weight on when she was being bullied at her old school back when she was 7,and plus me and her dad seperated not long after that,,so if thats the case now she must be starting to feel secure again,which i must admit brings a tear to my eye,,i cannot do anything now about wat has passed but i can dam well make sure that from the bottom of my heart no matter wat it takes,i will make sure and try my best to keep sophia feeling safe and secure,like i always used to ,before the events of the last 2 and a half years,,,sophia is my little miracle i waited a very long time for her after having an ectopic pregnancy,infact 12 years,how is it we can forget sometimes just how preciouse our little kids are??


yesterday we were out on our walk and i asked her if she had played with any other kids in school ,and she said no mum i just spent time with you,and i laughed and said oh did i come and play with you?wat did we play and she said no mum in my head i came and spent time with you and it was great,,,,this brought a smile to my face and then saddend me,i just hope the more she starts to feel safe and confident the more she will fit in with the other kids,,even though i love the thought that she wants to spend time with me,i would love it even more if she was happily playing with the other kids.....xxxxxxx


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