Hi All

My son is 6 years old and at home, the sweetest boy in the world, but constantly in trouble at school.  At home he does talk a lot, interrupt, constantly lose things and is generally on the go - but he is a lovely, funny, gently little boy who is very clever and interesting and has some great friends he plays beautifully with.

At school though, he doesn´t sit still, behaves aggressively with shouting and tantrums when punished and has problems getting on in the group. 

As i live in Spain, he has been in private English schools, but has just been excluded from the last school left in my area after only six days.  Their reason being that he is disruptive.  they have no interest in talking to me about the behavioral management techniques I use that work on him, so they just get rid of him like dirty rubbish.

Despite having a business, friends a home and family here, I now really have to leave and take Andre back to the UK to get him into school.  I wanted first to know if anyone could give me any advice on finding a good school for him, as I couldnt bear him being somewhere awful and I will relocate anywhere to give him a happy school life as he deserves it!!!!

Secondly, I wanted to know what advice can be given to me for calming Andre down during school, without Ritalin, which I would not give to my beautiful son who behaves like a model child at home.

Thank you for any advice you can offer!